Friendships That Bring You Closer to Allah
Choosing the Right Circle
We’ve all heard the saying: “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you who you are.” Islam actually teaches something very similar. The Prophet ﷺ said:
“A man follows the religion of his close friend, so each of you should be careful who he takes as a close friend.” (Abu Dawood)
That means the people you hang out with every day are shaping who you become. If your friends constantly distract you from salah, use bad language, or encourage haram activities, it’s easy to slip into those habits too. But when your friends remind you of Allah, check on you when you miss prayers, and share beneficial reminders, they’re pulling you toward Jannah.
Signs of a Good Friend
They remind you of Allah when you forget.
They encourage you to do better, not worse.
They respect your boundaries as a Muslim.
They are there for you in both good times and bad.
Be the Friend You Wish You Had
It’s not only about finding good friends—it’s also about being one. If you want someone who encourages you in your deen, start by encouraging others. Invite them to pray with you, send a Qur’an verse that inspired you, or just be the person who listens when they’re struggling.
✨ Action Step: This week, send a kind message or reminder to one of your friends. That small effort could strengthen both your friendship and your iman.
